Author: Kim Potgieter
I am noticing, however, what I call the “hassle factor”. In the past, you may have had abundant energy and received midnight calls about burst geysers and rogue DSTV aerials with a degree of equanimity. Now, these minor irritations can morph into monsters.
My own experience bears me out. I recently sold my two townhouses, purchased as an investment, because I was not as cash-positive as I had thought. With the increasing cost of
rates and levies, I had to recognise that the rental return did not warrant holding onto the properties.
A client I was chatting to this week had...
Stay Connected, Stay Fulfilled
If you’ve considered relocating for your retirement, have you thought about how that will affect how connected you will be to the people and places you enjoy? All too often, when clients come to do their retirement plans, the first thing they tell me is “We are moving away from the madness that is Jo’burg.” Often after our discussions, the clients realise that, if they were to leave Johannesburg, they would feel too cut off from family, friends and their community. If the clients really want to move away, it is important for them to have a plans to replace what they have...
Curve Balls
In these situations, when we talk about bucket lists, we usually chat about exotic holiday destinations and adventures they want to pursue. However, often times, as you will see in the stories that I will share with you, there are people that simply aren’t able to spend their retirement savings on those dreams because life has thrown them unexpected curve balls. Their bucket lists involve simpler, real-life desires that a few of you may be able to relate to.
Wally and Elaine were about to retire, but they had already drawn a substantial amount of money from their retirement...
Are your emotional bank accounts in the red?
I see numerous couples every year and for the most part they are in reasonably good shape financially. Most of them have a vision for their life’s journey, and if they don’t, it usually doesn’t take long to figure out what makes them tick and to help them make plans for their future. What I spend most of my time doing, however, is relationship work. I usually work with the couple, but my work often extends to the wider family too. What I have discovered is that we often operate unconsciously, not realising how powerful our words and actions can be. Those...
The Greatest Wealth is Health
I start by asking, “What kind of equipment is getting you around the road of life, a vintage performance bike or a dilapidated bike with bad breaks?” The car analogy is useful but the reality is a car can be replaced, whereas your body (bar a few aesthetic body parts) cannot. It is likely that you will probably require the use of your body for another 40 years, so if it is not in good nick now your only option is to restore it. Like a vintage car, character is not a bad thing but the goal is to clean it up and get it running as well as you can. Even if you have a...
Living on Purpose
As I think of the political and social changes in our beautiful country, I would like us to reflect on our freedom … the freedom to choose, the freedom to direct our own destinies, our freedom to make of our lives something purposeful.
I love to hear stories from my clients who have made a decisive change to their lives to ensure they live on purpose. I recently enjoyed a flight over Plettenberg Bay with one of our clients. He took stock of his life and realised that the best use of his time was to enjoy life with his wife in a beautiful part of the country. He still...
Insights from the Serenity Prayer
My father used it extensively when he started the 12-step recovery programme at Alcoholics Anonymous and it helped him stay sober for the last 17 years of his life. It seems to help me get a little perspective on a situation, and to have an honest conversation with myself about how much control I really have.
The prayer’s origin goes back 70 years and has been translated into many different languages and is prayed by people from lands and backgrounds the world over. So, although it may seem to be founded in religion, don’t let that put you off if you aren’t that way inclined.
It...
Time – Your Most Precious Currency
Seeing spending differently
When it came to buying Christmas family gifts one year, I reminded myself of a different perspective on spending. This is partly owing to the fact that my family so often craves my time … a commodity in short supply!
Inspired by our beautiful advent calendar, I made vouchers to be redeemed as each ‘door’ was opened: for my daughter, Gabi, time to brush and plait her hair; the reading of a bedtime story; a visit for the whole family to the Magnum pop-up store in Rosebank for mouth-watering creamy ice-creams; our son, Josh, was allowed to download his own choice of...
Do you realise what you have?
Over the past five years, I have been involved with a senior citizens group in my local neighbourhood. It is an instructive activity as one becomes aware of members of the group who are suddenly no longer there, having passed on.
I was recently invited to speak at one of the weekly meetings of the group to encourage and reassure them as, the caller told me, they were feeling a bit despondent as a number of them had lost friends who had passed away in the past few months and were feeling very lonely.
Have you ever had the opportunity to speak to senior citizens? Having done it for the past...
Oxford Professor on trends in ageing
Trends in ageing
Sarah Harper, Professor in Gerontology, and Director of the Oxford Institute of Population Ageing, Oxford Martin School, shared some startling new findings regarding the social implications of demographic changes around the world in her presentation entitled .Rethinking Global Ageing.
According to a UN report released in October, 2012, within a decade, the number of people over 60 will exceed one billion. For the first time in history, population growth is being driven by increasing longevity rather than by fertility rates: older people are living longer, younger...








