Author: Kim Potgieter
Remember, when your income changes, the way you manage money must change too. The simplest way to regain control is to be proactive and make your money work for you.
Step 1: Take stock of your money
List your essential expenses – Housing, food, utilities, insurance, transport, school fees, and medical costs. These are your priorities.
Cut back on non-essentials – Subscriptions, takeaways, and luxuries can be paused.
Review your retirement savings: You may have scattered retirement accounts – old pensions, investment funds, or annuities you haven’t reviewed in...
Kim’s Reflection on Victoria’s Journey
Victoria shared an incredibly brave and honest story. Borrowing from Theodore Roosevelt’s Man in the Arena – the credit belongs to Victoria, who bravely stepped into the arena with the courage to pursue victory and the resilience to face the possibility of failure.
When faced with an unexpected challenge, Victoria didn’t wait for circumstances to change, or get stuck in why is this happening to me? Instead, she stepped forward when life demanded it. It takes courage to shift from being a teacher and part-time artist to becoming the primary income earner, and Victoria did it with...
When your side hustle becomes your main gig
Introducing Victoria
Victoria has always been an artist at heart. As a drama teacher and part-time sculptor, she never imagined that her creative passion would one day need to support her family. Life as an expat, moving between Johannesburg, Uganda, and Cape Town, taught her adaptability, but nothing prepared her for the financial and emotional upheaval when her husband lost his business during Covid. Suddenly, she had to rethink her role and find a way to turn her love for art into a sustainable income. She focussed on sculpture, built a name for herself, and later expanded into...
The Year of AND: Because we always have Choices
Every January, I take time to reflect, dream, and plan. But this year, AND kept coming to mind – a word that challenges the idea that life is an either/or decision. So often, we feel pressured to choose one path over another: to be strong or vulnerable, driven or relaxed, happy or sad. But what if we could be many things all at once: driven AND take time to rest, feel uncertain about the future AND excited about what’s next? This mindset has helped me navigate life with more gentleness and kindness toward myself. I don’t always have to be a superstar – and that’s okay.
Where...
Navigating midlife on your terms
Becoming a granny was magical, but it also reminded me how much we limit ourselves with numbers. Imagine if the marathon and grannyhood had happened in the other order. Can you picture the headline? “Granny Runs the Berlin Marathon!” It sounds a bit outrageous! But also a reminder that it’s never too late to dream big or take on new challenges.
Give yourself permission
How often do we wait for someone else to tell us it’s okay to step out of the box? To follow our hearts? This year, I learned that the only permission we need is the one we give ourselves. Starting off this year in a...
What you need to know if you’re retrenched
Here’s a guide to help you understand key areas like your severance package, retirement funds, and financial planning to make informed decisions during this time.
The retrenchment package
Retrenchments, whether voluntary or involuntary, typically include a severance package. The basic calculation is one week’s salary for every year of service. Sometimes, in voluntary retrenchments, employers may offer higher amounts. Severance pay is taxable according to the Retirement Lump Sum Tax table, with a R550,000 tax-free threshold available if it hasn’t been used for previous retirement...
Kim’s reflection on Brandon’s journey
Keep building your skills
The world is changing fast, and so are the skills needed to stay relevant. We often think we’ll keep doing the same work, but that’s not always the case. Upskilling or building parallel skills is crucial – it gives you options to explore a new career path. Keep asking yourself, “How can I add value in different ways?”
Partner with a financial planner
When retrenchment happens, emotions can run high. Fear, anxiety, and uncertainty may cloud your thinking, and making financial decisions in that state isn’t easy. A financial planner can help you stay...
Starting a business after retrenchment
With a son in matric and enrolled for university the following year, a daughter preparing for her wedding, and a home loan still to pay off, Brandon felt like he was stuck on an emotional roller coaster. He was faced with the reality of having no formal credentials and slim prospects of finding another job at his previous salary level. But instead of letting fear take over, Brandon turned this curveball into an opportunity—choosing to start his own business and face the challenges of self-employment in midlife.
Navigating retrenchment
Brandon’s first reaction when he heard of his...
Are You Driving Yourself to Financial Stress?
But how much do our immediate lifestyle decisions—like buying that dream car—impact our long-term financial health? Let’s take a closer look, using cars as an example, because they’re a highly emotional (and very expensive) purchase.
The Dream Car Dilemma
Let’s say my dream car is a VW Tiguan. I went online to build my ideal version, and here’s what I found: the base price of a brand new VW Tiguan 2.0 TSI is R861,600. But of course, I wanted some extras—upgraded paint, rims, a better sound system, a sunroof, and safety features. Throw in a sports package, and my dream car now costs a...
Kim’s Reflection on Nicola’s Journey
One of the key lessons I love from Nicola’s journey is how important it is to keep your skills up to date, even when you’re not working full-time. This is so important for mothers who take time out to raise children. Nicola made a conscious effort to keep learning, and that decision gave her the confidence to re-enter the workforce when the time was right. It’s a valuable reminder that nurturing your skills during any career break is a long-term investment in yourself.
Another powerful lesson is how Nicola tapped into the Japanese concept of ikigai, meaning ‘a reason for...






